Alexandra Konstanti

I’ve always thought that Christmas movies, especially the American ones, tend to be a bit cheesy—lacking real depth and following the same predictable happy endings that everyone deserves at Christmas. These films often revolve around romantic stories, unresolved family dramas that magically find resolution in a matter of days, and situations you can predict before they even begin. It all felt a bit too formulaic.

But then, something clicked. I realized that maybe that’s exactly the point. In a world where we often chase material things—let’s face it, my students, when asked about Christmas, will eagerly tell you that it’s all about gifts (and yes, they really matter to them)—Christmas also offers something else: a pause from our daily routines, a time for self-reflection, and a chance to reconnect with family or friends.

Spending time with others, particularly those who have played a significant role in shaping our emotional growth, can reveal so much about the progress we’ve made—or haven’t made. This dynamic is a crucial element in every Christmas movie. The protagonists are often faced with challenges that push them to confront their mindsets, behaviors, and past decisions, forcing them to take a step deeper, a step forward, in order to achieve true happiness.

These 6 movies and 1 series embody exactly that. The characters are nudged, sometimes gently, sometimes forcefully, to evolve so they can find their ideal match, make sense of their lives, and repair their relationships with family or friends. Don’t expect “Love Actually”, neither “The Holiday” in this article. I’ll say one of these films is a Christmas classic for me, but the rest are more recent, with some even releasing on Netflix just this past year. If you stay till the end, there is something old but so unique! Let’s dive in:

The Best Man Holiday (2013- Universal)

About: In this film, a group of friends in their late twenties is forced to confront the complexities of life and relationships. Years have passed since their last gathering, but Christmas brings them together again to repair the emotional rifts that time has created.

What I Liked: The strong cast, the well-timed tension-relief moments, and especially the character of Quentin. The film struck a deep chord with me—it made me cry and reflect on life, rather than feeling like just another predictable holiday movie.

Love Hard (2021- Wonderland Sound and Vision- Released by Netflix)

About: Natalie, a hopeless romantic navigating a series of disastrous dates via dating apps, finally meets what seems to be the perfect match. She travels to his hometown during Christmas to surprise him, only to discover she’s been catfished.

What I Liked: This movie tackles modern problems with humor, exploring the dangers of chasing just the superficial. I loved the dynamic between the protagonists and how the film cleverly blends “Die Hard” with “Love Actually.” In the end, one character finds their way back to what truly matters, with one of these movies.

The Grinch (2018- Animation- Universal and Illumination) *family friendly*

About: In this animated classic, the Grinch, a green, grumpy creature who lives in the mountain above Whoville, despises Christmas and everything associated with it. He plots to steal Christmas from the Whos, but things take an unexpected turn.

What I Liked: This movie is a Christmas classic for a reason. The Grinch’s grumpy, straightforward nature resonates with the human side of us that doesn’t always feel overwhelmingly joyful, especially during the holidays. Max, the Grinch’s dog, is a delight, and the scenes with the reindeer are hilarious. It brings you back to your childhood, reminding you of the simple joys of the season.

That Christmas (2024- Locksmith Animation) *family friendly*

About: Many families in Wellington-on-Sea eagerly anticipate celebrating Christmas together as always. However, a snowstorm brings unexpected changes and challenges for children, adults, and even Santa himself.

What I Liked: The warm atmosphere created by the children’s connections was heartwarming. I enjoyed the quirky character of the weird teacher, the touching relationship between Sam and his mother, and Santa’s eccentricity. The classic recipe of an animal-helper with an attitude—this time a reindeer—was delightful. Especially funny was the scene of Santa braving the heavy snowstorm to deliver presents. It made me laugh and truly feel that Christmas had arrived.

Our Little Secret (2024- Capital Arts and Good Entertainment and Netflix)

About: An ex-couple coincidentally reunites at a Christmas gathering, only to discover their new partners are siblings. A little secret begins to unravel from there.

What I Liked: Lindsey Lohan shines after a long time with very good acting and humorous vibes. I particularly enjoyed the scene in the church, the creative storyline, and the deeper message about independence, dreams, and hidden fears. It left me contemplating what we avoid when we keep running from our past.

The Night Before (2015- Sony Pictures Entertainment)

About: Finally! A Christmas movie about three men searching for love, support, and faith. The film follows three friends as they reunite for one last wild New Year’s Eve night.

What I Liked: Isaac’s character stood out with hilarious moments, especially the unforgettable church scene (“We didn’t kill Jesus!”). Michael Shannon delivered a strong performance in his role. The relationship between Isaac and his wife, as well as fun references to the Home Alone movies, made this film both funny and heartfelt. I enjoyed the camaraderie and chemistry among the group of friends.

Hjem Til Jul/ Home For Christmas (2019- 2020- Norwegian Production)

About: A woman in her 30s embarks on a mission to find a boyfriend within 24 days and present him at the family dinner on New Year’s Eve.

What I Liked: The Norwegian Christmas scenery and atmosphere added a unique charm, while the Norwegian language made it feel even more festive. I enjoyed the relationship between Johanne and Jørgunn, as well as the heart-melting and attractive character of Jonas. The club scene was a highlight. The series left me with a sweet aftertaste and the illusion that I had spent my holidays in Norway.

For Hardcore Movie Lovers

The Long Kiss Goodnight (1996- New Line Cinema) *unfortunately not available on Netflix*

About: A classic and unique action thriller that, although not a traditional Christmas movie, takes place during the holiday season.

What I Liked: The unforgettable scene with the fight scene in a Christmas decorated house- with a pie in the end used for other purposes- and Geena Davis ice-skating hard makes this film a standout. Its action-packed sequences and sharp dialogue keep it timeless. I could watch this movie over and over again. It’s a perfect mix of suspense and holiday “cheer”—brush it up and give it a go!

What’s YOUR all-time favorite Christmas movie?

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